With all the negativity in this world, sometimes I sit and wonder why I would want to put my life out there for everyone to see and to judge. When I started YouTube, I never thought about the negativity that could come with it. All I knew was that I enjoyed sharing my life with everyone. It was a way for me to journal my life and to be able to relive the past.
With more subscribers and more views comes more hate. A lot of people tell me, ‘don’t listen to the haters’ and ‘they’re just trolls with nothing better to do.’ It’s true, those people ARE just haters and have NOTHING better to do. They don’t care about your feelings.
So how do I stay positive amid all of the hate?
- Family & Friends – My husband, my kids and my close friends are really the number 1 reason why I’m able to stay so positive. They are always there for me. They listen to my problems and let me vent. Sometimes all I need is for someone to just listen to my problems. I don’t always need an answer or a solution, but instead someone to just listen to me. I love them for that!
- Block the negativity – This one is really simple, just block the person. Most of the time, these haters just want your attention, and the more attention you give them the happier they will be. So don’t give them the time of day, and just block them!
- Remember the positives in life – Whenever I’m feeling down, I just think of how many blessings I have. My husband, my kids, my friends, our house, my job, all of the vacations we have taken. I am very happy with my life and with how much I have accomplished. No one can take that away from me!
- Treat others the way you want to be treated – It’s amazing to me how much you can brighten a person’s day just by being nice to them. And those feelings will come right back to you. I really believe that emotions are contagious. So be nice to others, be happy, and don’t forget to smile!
- Make some changes – we have to learn to accept constructive criticism in a healthy way. If something is really bothering you, then maybe there’s something there that needs to be changed or improved upon. Remember we are always changing, growing and improving. Life is a never-ending learning process.
It’s easy to hide behind a computer screen and put people down. But please remember that we are all human and we all have feelings. We should encourage others and build each other up. Let’s all be kind to one another and treat others the way we wish to be treated.
At the end of the day, I know I am a good person, and that’s all that matters! I love you guys and I hope everyone has an amazing day!!
P.S. What helps you stay postitive? Let me know in the comment section
MelBeezeeTV 
Hi melbeezeetv my name is fay and i watched your videos on YouTube my family love Disneyland i my family wish that we come back to Disneyland i am sixteen years old i am in 11th grade this year almost a senior i not gradation yet i will graduated in 2019 so please my family out because my gradpop passed away so thanks and have a great day from Fay..
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Hi Mel,
I loved this blog…
Thank you so much for sharing your awesome videos and for sharing a part of your life with us. It takes a lot to open your life up to the general public. We have been watching your videos for yrs and have always loved your videos and your family interaction and how warm n loving you all are. My children have just started a channel ( I was worried about negativity… we don’t have many subscribers yet so don’t really get anyone watching/following ) But I will be defiantly taking our advice to block those that cause you sadness.
From Robyn, Cody n Bella – Australia 🇦🇺
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This is so motivating Mel. But wouldn’t blocking show that we’re weak and cannot bear all their shit? Kindly answer my question.
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It doesn’t make me weak. It means I don’t have time and space for drama in my life. There are some people on YouTube who like to pick on people and like to argue. Once you give them your attention they don’t stop. They just keep going and going. So why would I allow that person to continue doing that to me? There are mean comments on my channel that I leave. But when I notice the same person repeatedly commenting nasty comments, that’s when I block them.
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It doesn’t mean that she is weak it means she isn’t giving them any power
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Melbeezee!!!! You are one of the first vloggers I came across when I started this YouTube journey and I just Love your little family!!! I needed this. I am not looking forward to ‘hate’ but like you said it comes with being on the Tube. Thank you thank you for posting this! Continue to do what you are doing because WE support you!!! Xoxx
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Thank you so much! I love you too girl!!! ❤️
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Man it’s so true! The sad part is when some of your haters can be who you thought had your back, in the form of family and friends. Trying blocking them! Yikes! Our family really enjoys watching your family vlogs.. You have a beautiful family and y’all are pretty hilarious too. Wishing you all the best for the future! Our family will certainly be watching Xoxo
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